Geoffrey “Geoff” Shyam Stirling Jr., the brother of Real Housewives of Orange County alum Lydia McLaughlin, died at the age of 45 after being fatally shot by Newport Beach police during a traffic stop on the night of April 17, 2025. The tragic incident unfolded on Pacific Coast Highway and is currently under official investigation by the California Department of Justice.
The Traffic Stop That Turned Fatal
According to a statement released by the Newport Beach Police Department on April 18, an officer initiated a traffic stop involving Stirling, who was riding a motorcycle near Superior Avenue around 9:15 p.m. Authorities said Stirling, a resident of Laguna Niguel, was pulled over for a suspected traffic violation. However, the situation quickly escalated.
Police allege that Stirling became uncooperative during the stop and proceeded to physically assault the officer. During what they described as a “violent altercation,” Stirling reportedly reached for the officer’s duty belt, removed the department-issued taser, and attempted to deploy it on the officer multiple times. At that point, an officer discharged their firearm.
Additional police units arrived on the scene shortly after the shooting. Officers reportedly administered emergency aid until personnel from the Newport Beach Fire Department arrived. Stirling was then transported to a local hospital, where he was pronounced dead shortly after arrival.
Independent DOJ Investigation Underway
In line with California law, any fatal officer-involved shooting involving a civilian who is not armed with a firearm triggers an automatic investigation by the California Department of Justice (DOJ). The DOJ confirmed that they responded to the scene and have now taken over the case for an independent investigation.
The department noted that once their findings are finalized, they will be reviewed by the DOJ’s Special Prosecutions Section. The investigation will assess whether the force used during the incident was legally justified.
Body camera footage from the involved officer is expected to be released publicly within 45 days, as required by California transparency laws governing police accountability.
Legal Background: Stirling Faced Pending Felony Charge
Further details emerged following the incident, revealing that Geoffrey Stirling Jr. had a pending legal matter at the time of the traffic stop. Court records show that he was facing a felony arson charge related to an incident on March 21, 2025. He had been scheduled to appear for arraignment on April 21 — just four days after the fatal shooting.
Although the full circumstances surrounding the alleged arson have not been publicly disclosed, the pending charge was a notable part of Stirling’s recent history.
Lydia McLaughlin Responds to the Tragic Loss
Lydia McLaughlin, who appeared in multiple seasons of Bravo’s The Real Housewives of Orange County, shared a heartfelt public statement following her brother’s death. In a message released through TMZ on April 18, she expressed the depth of her family’s grief:
“My family and I are devastated by the loss of my brother. We are grateful for the outpouring of love and support from friends, family, and the community. We kindly ask for privacy as we mourn.”
McLaughlin, now 44, is well known for her role in seasons 8 and 12 of RHOC. She is also a magazine editor, author, and lifestyle blogger.
A Family with Media Legacy and Deep Canadian Roots
Geoffrey Stirling Jr. came from a prominent media family. His father, Scott Stirling, is the current President and CEO of Newfoundland Broadcasting Company Ltd., a Canadian media conglomerate headquartered in St. John‘s, Newfoundland and Labrador. The company was co-founded by Geoff’s grandfather, Geoffrey William Stirling, a visionary broadcaster who passed away in 2013.
The elder Stirling was known for launching Canada’s first 24-hour television station (NTV) and for his unconventional spiritual and philosophical programming, making him a cultural icon in Newfoundland.
In addition to Lydia and Scott, Geoff is also survived by his older brother, Jesse Stirling, 53, a TV personality and media professional in Canada.
Remembering Geoffrey Stirling Jr.: Actor, Model, Producer
Beyond his family name, Geoffrey Stirling Jr. carved out a creative path of his own. He worked as a model and actor in Los Angeles, with credits in TV series such as Fashion House and Wicked Wicked Games. He also headed his own media production company, producing indie content and commercials.
An athletic and adventurous spirit, Stirling was also known to be a certified stuntman, sailing and windsurfing instructor, martial arts teacher, personal trainer, and even a baker in earlier phases of his life. He held a Communication Studies degree from the University of San Diego, where he graduated Phi Beta Kappa — a prestigious academic honor.
A Family Hit by Multiple Tragedies
This devastating loss comes just months after the Stirling family endured another tragedy. Geoff’s mother, Judy Stirling, died in October 2024 after a prolonged battle with breast cancer. Judy, who made a few appearances on The Real Housewives of Orange County, was widely remembered as a loving, supportive mother and part of the show’s extended family circle.
The back-to-back losses of Judy and Geoff have left the family reeling.
Community and Former Cast Members Share Condolences
Several friends and former co-stars have expressed condolences on social media. Fellow RHOC alum Vicki Gunvalson wrote on Instagram:
“Lydia – I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother! My heart hurts for you and your family. Peace be with you.”
The news has prompted an outpouring of sympathy from Bravo fans and those who have followed the Stirling family over the years.
Calls for Transparency and Accountability
As the investigation continues, the public and the media are closely monitoring how California’s DOJ will handle the matter. Civil rights advocates have emphasized the importance of releasing all available body cam footage and 911 call recordings to the public to maintain transparency.
Anyone with additional information is encouraged to contact the DOJ at (916) 210-2871 or through their official website. Updates on the case are expected in the coming weeks.
The tragic death of Geoffrey Stirling Jr. has left a deep impact on his family, friends, and the broader community. As investigations proceed, many are hoping for answers, clarity, and ultimately justice. For now, Lydia McLaughlin and her loved ones are asking for privacy and space to grieve as they face an unimaginable loss.
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