Comedian John Mulaney is opening up like never before about his journey to overcome addiction, his experience as a new father, and the immense support he’s received from his wife, actress Olivia Munn. Recently named GQ’s 2024 Man of the Year, Mulaney spoke candidly to the magazine about the highs and lows of his recovery and the significant changes that have shaped his life since entering rehab in December 2020.
The Battle with Addiction: “I Couldn’t Fly, Sleep, or Perform Without Klonopin”
In the interview, Mulaney shared the profound struggles he faced with substance abuse, revealing just how reliant he became on certain medications. At one point, he felt unable to carry out even basic tasks like traveling, sleeping, or performing on stage without prescription drugs such as Klonopin and Xanax. “There was a time when I would have told you that I couldn’t fly, sleep, or perform unless I had a Klonopin,” he admitted. “I would have said, ‘It sucks because I don’t always want to take Klonopin and Xanax, but I have to.’”
For years, Mulaney maintained a grueling schedule, using drugs to cope with the pressures of fame and his work as a stand-up comedian and Saturday Night Live writer. This routine ultimately became unsustainable. As his reliance on drugs intensified, he realized the necessity of seeking help to regain control of his life.
A Wake-Up Call: The “Insane” Night He Thought He Would Die
Mulaney’s addiction reached a breaking point in 2020, during what he described as an “insane” night at the height of his dependency. He recalled consuming so many drugs that he genuinely feared for his life. This harrowing experience served as a wake-up call, prompting him to consider the potential consequences of his addiction. “I thought, ‘Okay… I’m going to totally slow down,’” he said. However, his struggle was far from over; just two days later, he relapsed, underscoring the difficulty of breaking free from dependency.
Finally, in December 2020, Mulaney made the decision to check himself into a rehabilitation center to address his cocaine and alcohol use. Entering rehab marked the beginning of an ongoing recovery process that would transform not only his lifestyle but also his relationships with the people who mattered most.
Olivia Munn’s Role in His Recovery Journey: A Partner’s Unwavering Support
As Mulaney worked toward sobriety, he found a steadfast supporter in Olivia Munn, who was six months pregnant with their first child when he entered rehab. Munn, understanding the challenges he faced, took a proactive approach to help him stay committed to recovery. Mulaney revealed that Munn had even staged a “mini-intervention” of her own, deciding to conduct random drug tests to ensure that he was maintaining his sobriety.
Mulaney viewed this measure not as a burden but as a comforting act of support. “It’s like a relief… I like to be able to not even have that be a question in her or anyone else’s mind,” he shared. “Something about peeing in that cup is like, I’m walking this walk. It gives me confidence.” Mulaney found a renewed sense of strength and assurance in knowing that he was accountable to the woman he loved, especially during such a transformative period of their lives.
A Love Story Born from Resilience
Mulaney and Munn’s love story became public in May 2021, after Mulaney had been through the initial stages of his recovery. The couple tied the knot in July of that year and soon after welcomed their son, Malcolm Hiệp, who will turn three on November 24, 2024. In September, the couple welcomed their second child, a daughter named Méi June, born via surrogate.
Their relationship blossomed during a turbulent time, but Mulaney has always credited Munn for being his rock. Reflecting on her unwavering support, he told Late Night with Seth Meyers in a 2021 interview, “[She] got to date me out of recovery, which is what they call a reverse-catch,” he joked, before adding with sincerity, “It is a very, very lucky thing to have met this woman.” Mulaney praised her strength and compassion, revealing that Munn “held my hand through that hell,” as he worked to rebuild his life and health.
Olivia Munn’s Own Journey: Coping with Challenges Alongside Mulaney
Munn, who was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer in early 2024, spoke about the complexities of meeting Mulaney at a challenging point in his life, when he was still grappling with the early stages of sobriety. Reflecting on that time, she said, “I was watching someone newly sober, at the edge of a cliff, and I didn’t know him well enough to help him.” The couple’s connection deepened as Munn took an active role in his recovery, and they worked together to build a supportive family environment.
In interviews, Munn has highlighted how, despite her own challenges, she has chosen to be there for Mulaney in every way possible. Balancing her own health issues and career with Mulaney’s recovery journey has been demanding, but she has remained dedicated to nurturing their relationship and their growing family.
A New Chapter: Fatherhood and Healing
Today, Mulaney is embracing his new role as a father of two with immense gratitude. Parenthood, he says, has brought a new level of fulfillment and motivation to his life. He finds joy and purpose in raising his children, Malcolm and Méi June, and he sees his family as a testament to his resilience. While his battle with addiction has been difficult, Mulaney now has a renewed sense of hope and purpose that he never imagined during his darkest days.
In addition to his family life, Mulaney is focused on maintaining his sobriety and staying committed to his recovery, strengthened by the knowledge that he has a strong support system. He continues to perform and write comedy, finding solace in his work while prioritizing his health and well-being. With Munn by his side, he feels a profound sense of stability and encouragement, allowing him to fully embrace this new chapter in life.
A Message of Strength and Support
Mulaney’s journey serves as a powerful reminder of the complexities of addiction and recovery, as well as the importance of having a reliable support system. His openness about the ups and downs of his journey helps destigmatize the challenges of mental health and substance abuse, offering hope to those who may be struggling with similar issues. As he navigates fatherhood and sobriety, Mulaney remains grateful for the love and support of Munn and his family, who have stood by him every step of the way.